Authenticity. Compatibility and Opposition. Self IS we are One

Authenticity. Compatibility and Opposition. Self IS we are One

Self. Knowing the self sparks a fascination with the Self in others. It does not spark a need to control, limit or define the Self in others. Simply a fascination with the other that makes you really want to see the magic that unfolds as they truly emerge. An invitation to explore the paradox, not the contradiction, of the potent Self and that we are all one.

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Authenticity invites Emotion “and” Intellect. Not “or”

Authenticity invites Emotion “and” Intellect. Not “or”

Much of academia, religion, society, tell us that the weak are driven by emotion. Yet, they use our emotions to control us. Guilt, shame, hope, nostalgia. In shopping, priorities, food, habits, relationships. An ad, a movie, a book generated an emotional response that fed your decisions in those areas. Have You explored any of this, yourself? I mean truly gone deep within yourself for answers?

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Focusing on yourself is not selfish

Focusing on yourself is not selfish

From an early age, when we see something in quotes, particularly from someone well-known as an expert, we take it as fact, or more importantly, truth. As we get older, for our own deep evolution and well-being, it is important to discern what we actually believe. I keep saying, "not everything in quotes is fact". For example, it is not always true that focusing on yourself, drawing inward, is selfish. Helping is not how everyone heals. I hope this inspires you.

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The opportunity inherent in this pandemic

The opportunity inherent in this pandemic

In a world that usually makes sure we’re always too busy for deep introspection, to find out who you really are and — beyond the panic, beyond survival mode, of a pandemic — what you really, deeply, want most out of this life, is an opportunity I invite you to immerse yourself in, if you can.

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Authenticity allowed — for Service Professionals

Authenticity allowed — for Service Professionals

I really do believe we attract what we focus on, and what we believe — in fear or in love. I believe — and perhaps that belief is why I attract the experience — that this applies to the people and relationships we attract as well, clients included.

When we shift our mindsets to focus on what we love or what brings us joy, and we begin to recognize that we inherently believe that, and not the thing we feared. The momentum of that takes a little time to show up, so it may seem as if we’re still attracting the previous focus, when in fact the shift simply hasn't yet shown up in our physical reality yet. Exciting, isn't it? That means we just need to stay focused on what we want, rather than fear, to see more of what we want. In my experience, it is quite literal, and it happens more readily now, than when I first started focusing more mindfully. Here’s one look at a small mindset shift that helped.

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