Why Self First is so important

Why Self First is so important

"SELF. The healed, whole Self. Discovered, loved, nurtured, knows compassion because it experienced it first within. It is This Self who can Truly Love others. Please don't be shamed out of putting Self First."

— Crystal-Marie Sealy 

The world, believe it or not, is evolving in love. Knowing ourselves allows us to truly stay conscious in that evolution, and allows true love to overflow. We can only share what we truly have within. ❤️

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Interview: Finding Fulfillment at Any Age: The Authentic and Intuitive Approach

Interview: Finding Fulfillment at Any Age: The Authentic and Intuitive Approach

Welcome to a light recap (full interview video included) of my unscripted, live conversation with Patricia A. Muir, around my philosophy on authenticity, self-acceptance, intuition and the feminine. Thank you, Patricia, for your invitation to share my lens on this. A quick reminder that The Self, the true innate You, is a crucial aspect of any genuinely authentic and intuitive approach to life — it Is entirely based on the self. And if in doubt, Patricia talks briefly too about the fact that intuition proves itself. May you find what you need here, today. 

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For a time. Moments, Lifetimes, Seasons

For a time. Moments, Lifetimes, Seasons

If they've become permanently incompatible we remember, that we are in each other's lives for a time. Sometimes it's for one or several moments, sometimes for a lifetime and sometimes for different seasons. If they're momentarily incompatible, we remember and honour individual sovereignty, honouring our needs and boundaries in that moment.

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Focusing on yourself is not selfish

Focusing on yourself is not selfish

From an early age, when we see something in quotes, particularly from someone well-known as an expert, we take it as fact, or more importantly, truth. As we get older, for our own deep evolution and well-being, it is important to discern what we actually believe. I keep saying, "not everything in quotes is fact". For example, it is not always true that focusing on yourself, drawing inward, is selfish. Helping is not how everyone heals. I hope this inspires you.

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What I Believe Today

What I Believe, Today

The one thing I've learned on my journey of love with God is that expansion never ceases. The Creator and Lover of our souls has created us all for the continued expansion of love and creation and that that Love includes everyone. That means that what I learn today can shift my understanding in major or minor ways, affecting what (and how) I believe tomorrow.

Be Still And Know That I Am God

As I observe my newborn baby girl, I cannot help but go even deeper in my knowledge of God, of my spirituality, as I consider the legacy of unconditional love, choice and free will that I leave for her. All I've ever felt from God was Love. All fear, doom & gloom, shame, judgement, perfectionism, etcetera, all came from people - never in my quiet moments with God. When I am still, I know that I am loved completely, endlessly, unconditionally - and that everyone else is too.

What I Know Today

What I know, believe, today is that:

Unconditional love, self governance and absolute free will are the basic gifts God gave all of us - no exceptions. We are all, each of us, direct children of our Creator, and that we thus create and further expand our world by our words.

Whatever we focus on expands. If we speak things into being, and thoughts become words and action, then if we are wise, we will choose words of Love, not of fear/worry.

No one - no one- can govern your connection with God but you. Beware of anyone who tells you

"how to hear and interpret God"

. I believe that boundary is as important to your health as being able to govern your own mind and body. In the same vein, know that these are my beliefs and that to discover truth, you must honour your Own beliefs. Of course, you must first find out what those are.

Babies, as souls, choose our parents based on what we hope to learn in our life on earth at this time and in this space. I believe we choose to be born in the particular place, space and time, to experience life on earth, as it can only be in this space and time.  As a parent, I believe that means I am to create the environment of security, sanctuary and free will, in Love, that will allow her to truly flourish during her time on earth.

We (may) choose to incarnate on earth (or elsewhere) multiple times during the life of our souls and that the Universe expands with our every thought, word and deed, here. We have the wisdom of intentional amnesia as souls to allow each incarnation to be lived without influence from the last, but that that life experience is still accessible.

One God, one Source, loves and covers everyone and all beings that exist, that we all return to that Creator upon death, to be healed, incorporate our life lessons and decide whether or not we want to return to grow more, as souls created by God.

Jesus Christ was indeed real, and really the son of God, but that he came not to make us stamps of him, but to let us know that we too are already also equally powerful sons and daughters of God.

The word "witch" comes from the word for "wit" and "wisdom" in Greek, and that if delve beyond the fear and control of "witchcraft" and religion, we will find a suppressed knowledge of a huge part of our natural abilities and knowledge as humans (

"Women Who Run With the Wolves"

, E. Pinkola). That no religion or spiritual practice has it all right or all wrong.

Bless You 

There's so much more to share. I hope I've inspired you to start truly assessing what you really believe (if you step out in Love and release fear), leaving behind what you should believe to discover your own truth- what God, the Universe, your inner being, is saying to only you. I dare say it makes for a more complete you, which the world really needs. ❤

In Love, Light and Abundance,

Crystal-Marie

Crystal-Marie Sealy

Mom First • Author • Keynote "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" | Authenticity. Self-acceptance. Intuition and the Feminine.

Welcome to "Conversations with Crystal-Marie", honouring your individual sovereignty. Embrace what resonates, release what doesn't.

I'm Crystal-Marie Sealy. Get to know me here. Once you're comfortable, let's see:

✓ How I can support you more deeply here.

✓ How my keynote can best serve your audience.

✓ How my book(s) support you best.

If you are open to attracting an easier lifestyle, whether based on health or values, you'll find insights around:

​✓ Authenticity for Gentle Resilience. Embracing all of who you are, without apology or resentment of those who don't get it. Compatibility and individual sovereignty are key.

✓ The Feminine. Embracing the true feminine, maiden to crone. Dispelling myths, including those around the shadow, not toxicity. Intuition is key.

In ease, ebb and flow, love, abundance, possibility.

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An Expanded View of God

Hi My Loves.

I haven't written about my journey on this expanded knowledge of God for a while, so wanted to write an update, if only for journaling reasons. My knowledge of God now certainly goes well beyond Christianity, or mere religion, for that matter. I don't believe all that's out there, but it is so absolutely true that we each hear God directly. I do hope you know and trust that this is true of you, as well - whether or not those around you agree.

This excerpt says a lot of what I currently believe - there's no one group that God loves or connects with above all...

"This spirituality sees that everything in nature has consciousness, and is therefore sacred. That the proper attitude of a human towards the Creator is gratitude. That all creatures are part of the family of life. And that no matter a person’s age or skin color or national origin, and whether living on Earth or resident out among the stars, the ancient Lakota [Sioux] saying handed down over the ages was entirely true: “Mitakuye oyasin!” Everyone is my relative."

Source: 

https://www.bibliotecapleyades.net/vida_alien/starkids/starkids05.htm

What a journey of love and well-being this is!

Love, Light and Abundance in all good things.

Crystal-Marie

Crystal-Marie Sealy

Mom First • Author • Keynote "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" | Authenticity. Self-acceptance. Intuition and the Feminine.

Welcome to "Conversations with Crystal-Marie", honouring your individual sovereignty. Embrace what resonates, release what doesn't.

I'm Crystal-Marie Sealy. Get to know me here. Once you're comfortable, let's see:

✓ How I can support you more deeply here.

✓ How my keynote can best serve your audience.

✓ How my book(s) support you best.

If you are open to attracting an easier lifestyle, whether based on health or values, you'll find insights around:

​✓ Authenticity for Gentle Resilience. Embracing all of who you are, without apology or resentment of those who don't get it. Compatibility and individual sovereignty are key.

✓ The Feminine. Embracing the true feminine, maiden to crone. Dispelling myths, including those around the shadow, not toxicity. Intuition is key.

In ease, ebb and flow, love, abundance, possibility.

crystalmariesealy.com (previously successiory.ca)

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Blogging on Instagram (Quick Interlude)

Hello my Loves,

It seems I've gotten swept up in the ease that Instagram has created in allowing my to capture my idea in a quote image then expand on it in the description below. Still, I miss writing to you - to myself - here.

Slowly but surely, I'll return that content to this blog, where it belongs.

So much growth, learning and grounded authenticity has come out of my journey, since we last connected here.

I'm looking forward to sharing this with you.

Warmly,

Crystal-Marie S.

www.instagram.com/Successiory

 (Initially @cmaries08)

Crystal-Marie Sealy

Mom First • Author • Keynote "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" | Authenticity. Self-acceptance. Intuition and the Feminine.

Welcome to "Conversations with Crystal-Marie", honouring your individual sovereignty. Embrace what resonates, release what doesn't.

I'm Crystal-Marie Sealy. Get to know me here. Once you're comfortable, let's see:

✓ How I can support you more deeply here.

✓ How my keynote can best serve your audience.

✓ How my book(s) support you best.

If you are open to attracting an easier lifestyle, whether based on health or values, you'll find insights around:

​✓ Authenticity for Gentle Resilience. Embracing all of who you are, without apology or resentment of those who don't get it. Compatibility and individual sovereignty are key.

✓ The Feminine. Embracing the true feminine, maiden to crone. Dispelling myths, including those around the shadow, not toxicity. Intuition is key.

In ease, ebb and flow, love, abundance, possibility.

crystalmariesealy.com (previously successiory.ca)

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